Tragedy In My Family
I just found out, my favourite uncle Saeed Khokar passed away this past Thursday morning 16 November, 2006 in Karachi, Pakistan due to oral cancer-related complications. He was in his early 40s.
I am heart broken over this news. He leaves behind 5 kids and a grieving widow, his eldest is only 16.
His oral cancer was discovered sometime in the summer, 7 months ago, I don’t even recall… rather don’t wish to recall.
It wasn’t supposed to end this way, his cancer just never went away, it just was so malignant that it grew at such a rapid pace down his throat to his tongue and his lungs that even I find it alarming. In the end, he was unable to talk, eat or rest…
I am not relishing the telling, infact I am mourning the passing. Life just seems so fragile and bonds between family feel taut and delicate. I do not know who to talk to about how this death has affected me. I felt writing about it might help me cope.
I still can’t believe next time I visit home, I won’t see him, talk with him and joke with him…
I still can’t believe the stark reality about the fragility of life.
May God give him eternal peace. He suffered overmuch in this world in the end.
November 30th, 2006 at 5:45 pm
Dear Fareena, Assalam O Allaykum!
I would like to express my deepest condolences to you, for this tragedy.
Last time I saw you that grieved when you’d lost your loving grand mother.
This is life Fareena.
I pray Allah to appease your heart.
And I also pray for your uncle’s family – May Allah give them strength and courage.
A forgotten friend,
Navaid.